Wedding Ceremony
The main event. Traditional. Formal. Photographed heavily.
If you are close family or part of the wedding party
Sherwani is the strongest choice.
A Jodhpuri also works for a modern look.
If unsure, check with the couple.
If you are a guest
A kurta with a waistcoat is ideal.
A Jodhpuri works if the event is more formal.
Colour direction
Ivory, cream, gold, deep green, navy and maroon are safe and elegant.
Sangeet / Mehndi
Evening celebration. Music, dancing, high energy!
If you want to stand out
A Jodhpuri makes a statement without being overly traditional.
If you prefer something relaxed
A dark plain kurta works well.
A patterned kurta adds personality without going overboard.
If you are close to the couple
Lean slightly more elevated. Jodhpuri or detailed kurta.
Reception
Often formal. Sometimes black tie. Always polished.
First rule: check the invite.
If black tie is requested, wear a tuxedo.
If Indian formal is expected:
Jodhpuri is the cleanest option.
Pair with a mandarin collar shirt for a sharp finish.
Guests should avoid anything too heavy or bridal in tone.
Haldi
A daytime ceremony before the wedding. Colourful, joyful and usually outdoors.
What to wear
Sunset shades work best.
Mustard, orange, peach and light yellows feel right.
Kurta on its own works well.
Add a waistcoat if you want more structure.
Keep it lighter and less formal than the wedding ceremony.
Religious Ceremonies
Traditional, respectful, often family-led.
What works best
Plain kurta in light or neutral tones.
Waistcoat optional.
Keep it simple. Avoid overly bold designs.
Diwali
Festival of lights. Celebratory but not as formal as a wedding.
Patterned kurta works very well.
A waistcoat adds polish for evening gatherings.
This is a moment to wear colour confidently.
Holi
Colour festival. Informal and playful.
Wear something comfortable.
A lighter kurta works best.
Avoid your most expensive pieces!